Toxic People

Have you ever found that when you make a suggestion to someone or discuss a “New Idea” with your friends and family they spend more time trying to figure out why it wouldn’t work than actually how they could adapt it to their particular situation?  Or try and tell you why it wouldn’t work for you (How would they know anyway what would work in your life?) Plus in conversation it is all about “What Wrong With The World” instead of “What’s Right With The World?

 

You energy levels get zapped big time when you are around them?

 

I learnt a long time ago, to listen to what people were talking about and look behind that to see what they were actually saying and how entrenched in their negative thinking they were and honestly I can say most people talk about gloom and doom and the most words that come out of their mouths are full of negativity.

 

Many people every morning wake up to the clock radio, where the first thing you hear is the news, then a lot turn on the TV for more doom and gloom and another dose of negativity, then for some the icing on the cake is the morning Newspaper.  By the time people are fed all this doom and gloom hype, there enthusiasm for life is gone and if you employ someone afflicted by the “Syndrome” their productivity is not the best and they tend to affect the rest of your staff.  

 

But how does it affect YOU and YOUR DAY if you are a stay at home Internet Marketer, or an Offline Marketer and have a shop, salon or some other business?

 

Think about this for a while – really dig deep, how does this affect you? Are you a “Toxic Person”  - Yes YOU, what do you mainly think about and talk about,  has your home, office and place of business become a Toxic Waste Ground, with the ooze and slime of negativity?

 

Now you’re going to say, but Maggie what about the world economy.  Well what about it?  Do you honestly believe that in this day and age, you cannot build a good strong business if you were focused and almost one eyed about what it is you want out of life.

 

Stop being the flotsam and jetsam of life and start to be one eyed about how you want your life to be.

 

Last year I went to a 3-day seminar in Sydney run by a gentleman named Mal Emery, what a breath of fresh air!   He wouldn’t stand for any toxic people -  his advice (verbatim from my notes) to deal with them –

 

“If the Toxic dump is a friend, neighbor or relative stop associating with them, make yourself scarce and inaccessible.  Be rude with them if you must.  Being disliked and gossiped about by a toxic waste dump person is much better than being poisoned by one”

 

Why not try to stop listening to the Radio, TV news of a morning, Stop reading the newspapers (most news is greatly exaggerated anyway) and listen to a bit of Mozart or put on your favorite Upbeat CD.  Do this for 21 days, and watch the transformation in your life…

 

Life is good; I am penning this by hand first whilst sipping on a steaming hot cuppa, listening to the birds wake up, as I sit on my back balcony. 

 

Look out World here I come!

 

Until next time

 

Love and Light

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Tagged as: Business Owners, Intenet Business, Negative Business Owners, Toxic People